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Bondage Basics: Learning the ropes
Rope bondage is one of the most popular kinks, with a very enthusiastic community around it. This article will discuss what makes rope so fun to play with, how to incorporate it into scenes, and how to get started tying.

Inara Vesper
Aug 29


Client Guide: Working with providers
Professional S/M can be difficult for newcomers to navigate. Hence, I’ve created this little guide for clients.

Inara Vesper
Apr 9


Interview for Sensuali: Meet Berlin-Based Dominatrix Inara Vesper
The kink-positive platform Sensuali interviewed me on their blog. Read about my turn-ons, session favorites, and more.

Inara Vesper
May 13, 2025


Film Review: Preaching to the Perverted (1997)
Preaching to the Perverted, a 1997 erotic comedy directed by Stuart Urban, was recommended to me for its witty portrayal of a dominatrix. Here are my thoughts on the film and its representation.

Inara Vesper
Apr 24, 2025


What to expect when booking a session
Whether you are an experienced SM player or new to the game, I’ve written a guide to introduce my BDSM style, how I work and what to...

Inara Vesper
Mar 27, 2025


Cinephilia and BDSM
It’s no secret that I love the cinema, especially classic films from the 1960s and 70s, Jean-Luc Godard and Fellini, experimental works...

Inara Vesper
Mar 3, 2025
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