Interview for Sensuali: Meet Berlin-Based Dominatrix Inara Vesper

Inara Vesper
May 13
2 min read

Updated: May 14

I gave an interview for the kink-positive platform Sensuali on my work. Read more about my domination style, session favorites, and background below.

Co-authored by Iso & Inara Vesper

With roots in the Berlin‘s vibrant kink scene and a background in psychology, professional Dominatrix Inara Vesper offers a powerful yet playful approach to domination- one that’s as emotionally intelligent as it is erotically charged. From seduction and rope to CBT and role-play, her work is grounded in presence, consent, and a dash of humour.

Can you describe yourself in 3 words?

Curious, calm, sensual.

Tell us more about yourself and what you do…🦹‍♀️

I am a professional Dominatrix who loves erotic games. My experience began years ago in the Berlin scene, where I learned about my sexuality and my own kinks. What I enjoy is the creative and performative side of of BDSM and how we play with the mind, toying with our clients’ fantasies.

Outside of BDSM, I have a background in psychology and the social sciences, interests which continue to inspire my work.

What services do you provide on Sensuali?

I offer a range of BDSM services, from lighter introductions to more intense power exchange. Some of my session-favorites are seduction, role-play, rope bondage, and CBT.

What turns you on?

I feel most turned on through being present, in tune with someone else’s body, exciting them and teasing them, sensing how badly they want my touch. Tease and denial games are incredibly hot.

What was your journey into this world?

What started as private play in Berlin’s kink and sex-positive scene quickly became a passion. I feel grateful to have an interest that I can also make a living from, and for the wonderful sex work and BDSM mentors who helped me along the way. Since joining the team at Studio LUX earlier this year, I have learned a lot and am looking forward to new collaborations with my colleagues.

What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?

The humor.

Sometimes my BDSM sessions have a more serious atmosphere, but I found an unexpected pleasure in how funny and absurd sessions can be at times. Like when a sub’s playful misbehavior makes me laugh, or when I can’t help but smile during a slightly silly role-play.

BDSM doesn’t have to feel dark and heavy, it can also be light-hearted and theatrical. There are so many different fantasies to explore.